Jasz
VIP Contributor
Many people have a hard time saying no to a friend or family member who asks for a loan. And sometimes it's hard to say no because there's no good reason why you shouldn't lend the money.
The problem is that lending money can be risky, especially if you aren't able to get it back. If you are just one of many lenders, then you may not know who will pay back the loan and who will default on the loan.
The best way to deal with this dilemma is by having a set of rules that you follow when deciding whether or not to lend money. Here are some tips for making sure your decision-making process is both fair and effective:
Write down your rules before making any decisions about lending money; don't rely on memory alone.
Don't make exceptions unless there is a good reason — and even then, be careful! Exceptions can easily become the norm if they aren't carefully controlled.
Remember that some people are better at paying back loans than others; don't lend money just because they ask — that's how credit card debt typically starts.
The problem is that lending money can be risky, especially if you aren't able to get it back. If you are just one of many lenders, then you may not know who will pay back the loan and who will default on the loan.
The best way to deal with this dilemma is by having a set of rules that you follow when deciding whether or not to lend money. Here are some tips for making sure your decision-making process is both fair and effective:
Write down your rules before making any decisions about lending money; don't rely on memory alone.
Don't make exceptions unless there is a good reason — and even then, be careful! Exceptions can easily become the norm if they aren't carefully controlled.
Remember that some people are better at paying back loans than others; don't lend money just because they ask — that's how credit card debt typically starts.