Paridhi
Active member
Often it is seen that in a family, a child tramples on for any specific demand and parents full fill their unwanted demands. Due to this Behavior of parents, children become very pertinacious and if you don't full fill their demands they do such unwanted activity which hurts you.
For example you buy 02 ice cream sticks for your two children and given them but one of them is forcing you to have both the ice cream sticks. You do make understand him/her about the sticks but he/she is not ready to understand you. Then what will you do in that condition?. Like a normal parents you will allow him/her to take both the sticks and buy another stick to other child. This is your first largest and dangerous mistake which will unhinge the child forever.
Another example- Nowadays children are bent towards mobile phones and the games. They play games and music for hours and hours. Do you know what is going to be with your children in future? No, you don't know. Since you have a strip on your eyes, you cannot see the future. You see only the enjoyment and happiness of your child at the current or particular time. It harms your child's brain, neck, spinal cord, and more over memory. They may loose their memory and may get a reduction in their memory. In shorten form they can be a patient of "short term memory loss". He/she ask for mobile and you give it to them. This is your second largest and dangerous mistake towards your children.
So question is that how can the parents over come of this problem and how can they reform their children. In India such a country where emotions are more heavy than facts.
Now what is the solution? The solution is only- take away your emotions for say 20-30 seconds and get your child in your lap or in front of your eyes. Talk to him gently and gently with love and care and suddenly slap on his/her cheeks (not hardly but with the mixture of hard and gently so that it seems the toughness of your hard behavior and also could not be harmed with the jerk) but remember you should not be shouted on him just keep a calm and peace on your face and talk to him about main problem for which he/she was trampling on.
He/ she will see your another behavior than the love one. He/ She will be amazed and surprised to see his/her dad/mom in new form and it will definitely change his/her behavior. But above and all on later days, don't forget to love him/her with your care. So that they can be bounded with your love as well. Eventually they will be in a balance situation and will be reformed soon.
Just try it and see the changes.
For example you buy 02 ice cream sticks for your two children and given them but one of them is forcing you to have both the ice cream sticks. You do make understand him/her about the sticks but he/she is not ready to understand you. Then what will you do in that condition?. Like a normal parents you will allow him/her to take both the sticks and buy another stick to other child. This is your first largest and dangerous mistake which will unhinge the child forever.
Another example- Nowadays children are bent towards mobile phones and the games. They play games and music for hours and hours. Do you know what is going to be with your children in future? No, you don't know. Since you have a strip on your eyes, you cannot see the future. You see only the enjoyment and happiness of your child at the current or particular time. It harms your child's brain, neck, spinal cord, and more over memory. They may loose their memory and may get a reduction in their memory. In shorten form they can be a patient of "short term memory loss". He/she ask for mobile and you give it to them. This is your second largest and dangerous mistake towards your children.
So question is that how can the parents over come of this problem and how can they reform their children. In India such a country where emotions are more heavy than facts.
Now what is the solution? The solution is only- take away your emotions for say 20-30 seconds and get your child in your lap or in front of your eyes. Talk to him gently and gently with love and care and suddenly slap on his/her cheeks (not hardly but with the mixture of hard and gently so that it seems the toughness of your hard behavior and also could not be harmed with the jerk) but remember you should not be shouted on him just keep a calm and peace on your face and talk to him about main problem for which he/she was trampling on.
He/ she will see your another behavior than the love one. He/ She will be amazed and surprised to see his/her dad/mom in new form and it will definitely change his/her behavior. But above and all on later days, don't forget to love him/her with your care. So that they can be bounded with your love as well. Eventually they will be in a balance situation and will be reformed soon.
Just try it and see the changes.
