Jnr
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A good way to go through or filter the thoughts running through your mind is to ask: Is it necessary?
In the right moments, hanging out at the beach might be the best thing for you mentally, emotional and even physically. However, in times like this, it wouldn't be necessary or advisable to go running around in a swimsuit at the beach! Why? Because life is in seasons and right now we are in the coldest one! Analyzing the situation around you by using the question 'is it necessary?' would help make decision making better and even simpler.
It would not be necessary to go partying when you have a pile of work. You obviously can go without any query! However, thinking about the consequences of the few hours you would spend at a party on your goals can help persuade you not to go for one.
Another important thing to note is that most of the ephemeral stuff we do now are pointless! They might look so fulfilling right now but we know deep down that they are unnecessary! This is a big mistake many people make and it is what separates the good from the great. The allure of money, fashion and enjoyment can make us young people feel we need things that are really just distractions from our main goals. This is a big reason why people's dreams die in their heads! People with wonderful goals and dreams for their selves, their family and country, who get lost and entangled in the siren's call of the present seldom make it out well.
In the right moments, hanging out at the beach might be the best thing for you mentally, emotional and even physically. However, in times like this, it wouldn't be necessary or advisable to go running around in a swimsuit at the beach! Why? Because life is in seasons and right now we are in the coldest one! Analyzing the situation around you by using the question 'is it necessary?' would help make decision making better and even simpler.
It would not be necessary to go partying when you have a pile of work. You obviously can go without any query! However, thinking about the consequences of the few hours you would spend at a party on your goals can help persuade you not to go for one.
Another important thing to note is that most of the ephemeral stuff we do now are pointless! They might look so fulfilling right now but we know deep down that they are unnecessary! This is a big mistake many people make and it is what separates the good from the great. The allure of money, fashion and enjoyment can make us young people feel we need things that are really just distractions from our main goals. This is a big reason why people's dreams die in their heads! People with wonderful goals and dreams for their selves, their family and country, who get lost and entangled in the siren's call of the present seldom make it out well.
