Cause of divorces

Noor Fatima

Member
Possible solutions

So here are some possible solutions:
Misunderstanding

First you have to clear your misunderstandings if you think that there is something wrong with her/him go and ask him clearly this will clear most of your doubts and you can save your relationship

Lake of understanding

Without understanding it is impossible to live with your partner untill you know him/her properly so make understanding with your partner.
Doubts

As I wrote earlier that if you have any kinda doubt go and solve it with your partner otherwise it may weaken your relation
Impatient

Have some patient don't get furious on little things and try to understand the situation of your soulmate
There are many Ahadees on patient in Islam and there is also great atonement of patient in Islam
Ego and attitude

Ego and attitude is the main thing for the distruction of any relation ego is opposite to love so there is either ego or love in a relationship if you love your partner then their is no chance of attitude and ego these two are basically inversally proportional to each other if there is love then there'll be no ego attitude but if there is ego thn with the passage it will replaced by love so try to manage things and do compromise
Poverty

Poverty is also the reason of divorce and this is the thing which mostly women have to understand that "halat hamesha ak jesy nai rhty"
So if your partner is not earning enough to fullfil your desires try to cooperate with him If your are educated then go for a job which satisfiy you mentally cz if you aren't satisfy with what you are doing then it'll create much more mess and disturbance instead of solving things but if your aren't educated the there is also many other things that you can do by sitting in your home. Take the example of your elders like your mother,your mother in law ask them that how they managed their realtion at that time cz at that time poverty was at the top but they beat it and now they are in front of your eyes so try to take advice from them
And have strong faith in Allah almighty that one day he'll change your day
Imperfection

If your partner is imperfect then try to understand his/her situation cz it's not his/her fault and there are many treatment for this now a days if treatments aren't working you can adopt a child too because in this way the baby will get his parents and you get your offspring.
 

Good luck

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I think the major reason why most couple divorce is because of financial incapability.If the man of the house is really struggling to take care of the family , the woman will engaged in extra marital affair which will end up destabilize the marriage and the only alternative will be divorce.lack of trust is another major factor to consider in divorce.
 

Sotherefore

VIP Contributor
A lot of people are divorcing because of poverty but obviously this is not the best thing to do because if everyone was to follow the same then a lot of people who are not able to make it in life will have been divorced by now, money cannot buy love and there is no need for people to divorce their husband or wife because of lack of money.
 

Noor ahmed

New member
I think the major reason why most couple divorce is because of financial incapability.If the man of the house is really struggling to take care of the family , the woman will engaged in extra marital affair which will end up destabilize the marriage and the only alternative will be divorce.lack of trust is another major factor to consider in divorce.
There are several reasons behind divorce lack of education is the one reason like anyone should be educated enough to bear everything with patience , to make their homes like a heaven ,well, in men dominating environment it is considered to be women duty to make a home as peaceful as heaven but it's depends on both of them because a couple turns a home into a happy family , if a woman is giving her heart and soul to family ,men should co operate too instead of violating on little mistakes both of them should have enough education to live and raise their family in happy and healthy manner instead of breaking relationship
 

ben771williiams

New member
The first thing I would note is the ability to hear each other, to respect each other. Many people do not like the fact that they always spend time at home, you need to dilute this time, even just take a walk on the evening street, but most men do not notice this and so miss their wives, but the problem is not only men, the same problem and the girls, many do not want after intimacy, and for men it is a crash.
 
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