Etini
Valued Contributor
Born and brought up in Nigeria, there are certain things about Nigerian life that I think should be completely eradicated. One of those things is the outrageous expenses we incur at weddings and marriages. I spoke with a lady yesterday about the need to do a private wedding with only a few guests, she vehemently objected and told me it is like you are stealing the girl.
I know people who have taken loans to marry in Nigeria. I know people who gave saved for years just to marry. I believe such an outlay of funds can be channeled into an investment rather than into a one-day ceremony. The problem with all of this is that we were programmed to stretch to impress people. I maintain that it is economically sound to have a private wedding with few guests than spend so much. The funds can be channeled into an investment that would yield more income in the future.
I know people who have taken loans to marry in Nigeria. I know people who gave saved for years just to marry. I believe such an outlay of funds can be channeled into an investment rather than into a one-day ceremony. The problem with all of this is that we were programmed to stretch to impress people. I maintain that it is economically sound to have a private wedding with few guests than spend so much. The funds can be channeled into an investment that would yield more income in the future.